We often run to others for answers because we don’t want to make a mistake. But, the right answer is never outside of us so it can never be found out there.
The right answer requires that we sit through our discomfort with and fear of ourselves. It requires us to ask ourselves the questions and then take the risk of listening to ourselves.
This is what “following the heart” is all about. No saint, yogi, spiritual guide, life coach, therapist, or friend knows. Only the heart knows.
The only way through is through your own heart.
Beyond the Anxious Mind 